Is she interested?
If you want to meet women I suggest you first make sure you have mastered your body Language and learned the ability to interpret a woman's body Language. Before any conversation takes place, a woman has already formed an opinion of you. Body language is a subtle, subconscious language that tells people reams about you.
When it comes to your own body language, the first thing to work on is your posture. Good posture immediately conveys confidence and self esteem.
Pay attention to your body and what it is doing. Ask a friend to tell you when you are doing a nervous habit so you can learn to stop it. Make sure you make eye contact with everyone you speak to.
There are many Books about body language and I suggest you pick one up and study it, take notes and memorize what it says.
In my favorite Book of this genre, The Definitive Book of Body Language by Allan and Barbara Pease, I learned some ways to tell a woman is interested.
According to this Book there are subtle signals and gestures a woman has to show she is interested. Here are a few of them:
Tossing or flipping her hair - This is one of the first signs a woman gives that she is interested. The woman will toss or flip her hair off her shoulders or away from the face and even women with short hair do this.
An open, pouting mouth and wet lips -- This mimics the redness and openness of other body parts we won't mention.
Touching herself -- stroking herself, such as her thigh, throat or neck.
Having a limp wrist - this conveys a submissiveness to the man
Fondling something cylindrical - Fondling something like a cigarette, stem of a wineglass, a finger, or any other phallic-shaped object is a subconscious indication of what she may be thinking about.
Exposing the underside of her wrists and palms - a subconscious sign of interest
A sideways glance - this is usually done over a raised shoulder, which mimics a breast. The gaze is only held for a few seconds before she looks away.
Rolling hips when walking - this is a sex signal emphasizing the difference between the genders.
A tilted pelvis - again another primitive sex signal showing she is capable of child bearing.
Handbag location - if a woman keeps or moves her handbag close to the man this is a sign she is attracted because it is almost an extension of her body. She may even caress the bag or ask him to pass it to her, a sign of intimacy.
Knee direction - if one leg is tucked under, the knee may point to a man she is interested in.
Shoe Dangle - Dangling her shoe off her toes has subtle undertones as she puts her foot in and out of the shoe.
Twining the legs - When a woman has one thigh pressed tightly on the other, it makes the legs look more attractive but is also an indicator of interest along with crossing and uncrossing of legs.
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