แสดงบทความที่มีป้ายกำกับ Attractive แสดงบทความทั้งหมด
แสดงบทความที่มีป้ายกำกับ Attractive แสดงบทความทั้งหมด

วันอาทิตย์ที่ 11 ธันวาคม พ.ศ. 2554

Attractive Body Language

Is she interested?

If you want to meet women I suggest you first make sure you have mastered your body Language and learned the ability to interpret a woman's body Language. Before any conversation takes place, a woman has already formed an opinion of you. Body language is a subtle, subconscious language that tells people reams about you.

When it comes to your own body language, the first thing to work on is your posture. Good posture immediately conveys confidence and self esteem.

Pay attention to your body and what it is doing. Ask a friend to tell you when you are doing a nervous habit so you can learn to stop it. Make sure you make eye contact with everyone you speak to.

There are many Books about body language and I suggest you pick one up and study it, take notes and memorize what it says.

In my favorite Book of this genre, The Definitive Book of Body Language by Allan and Barbara Pease, I learned some ways to tell a woman is interested.

According to this Book there are subtle signals and gestures a woman has to show she is interested. Here are a few of them:

Tossing or flipping her hair - This is one of the first signs a woman gives that she is interested. The woman will toss or flip her hair off her shoulders or away from the face and even women with short hair do this.

An open, pouting mouth and wet lips -- This mimics the redness and openness of other body parts we won't mention.

Touching herself -- stroking herself, such as her thigh, throat or neck.
Having a limp wrist - this conveys a submissiveness to the man

Fondling something cylindrical - Fondling something like a cigarette, stem of a wineglass, a finger, or any other phallic-shaped object is a subconscious indication of what she may be thinking about.

Exposing the underside of her wrists and palms - a subconscious sign of interest
A sideways glance - this is usually done over a raised shoulder, which mimics a breast. The gaze is only held for a few seconds before she looks away.

Rolling hips when walking - this is a sex signal emphasizing the difference between the genders.

A tilted pelvis - again another primitive sex signal showing she is capable of child bearing.

Handbag location - if a woman keeps or moves her handbag close to the man this is a sign she is attracted because it is almost an extension of her body. She may even caress the bag or ask him to pass it to her, a sign of intimacy.

Knee direction - if one leg is tucked under, the knee may point to a man she is interested in.

Shoe Dangle - Dangling her shoe off her toes has subtle undertones as she puts her foot in and out of the shoe.

Twining the legs - When a woman has one thigh pressed tightly on the other, it makes the legs look more attractive but is also an indicator of interest along with crossing and uncrossing of legs.

วันพฤหัสบดีที่ 6 ตุลาคม พ.ศ. 2554

Use Attractive Body Language to Attract Women

The right body Language to attract women. As you read in the introduction to the psychology of attraction, it's VERY important to use body Language to attract women. This is because women look at every single aspect of your non-verbal communication to determine if you are the kind of guy that dates girls like her. They pay attention to your face, your smile, you posture, your hands and many other factors are all important to the girl you are trying to pick up.

So how do you use body language to attract women? It's all about confidence, guys. Projecting confidence is the most important aspect of using body language to attract women. Before you approach a girl, put a great big smile on your face!

Pay attention to your eyes. Eye contact is very important. A good rule of thumb for eye contact is to keep your eyes locked on her while it's her turn to speak. Break eye contact every once in a while when you are speaking yourself, so you are not staring too much at her.

Don't be afraid to touch a woman early in the interaction. I don't mean grab her boob while saying hello. Simply use light arm touches to articulate what you are saying. And I do mean LIGHT, you don't want to push her over. Touch very briefly and very lightly. If you notice the girl is becoming more comfortable with you, you can try touching different parts of her body (no not boobs just yet) like her hand or, when you are sitting, touch her leg. You shouldn't be afraid to escalate this, but if at any moment she indicates that she is not comfortable with a touch (maybe she pulls her hand away slightly), you should stop and take a step back. This shows that you give her space.

Try to get as close as possible to a girl without her feeling uncomfortable. A very good rule for this is the more you turn your body away from her, the closer you can be. Play around with that. For instance, you could point to something in the room and turn your whole body towards it while standing closer and when you are turning your body to face the girl again, take a step back. That is very powerful.

These are some of the things you should NEVER do:

Don't move too fast. Slow and careful movements project confidence and is good body language to attract women.

Don't slouch. Standing up tall is a very important aspect in body language to attract women. Walking around like you just ran over your own dog isn't going to do you any favors and is the opposite of body language to attract women.

I hope you found this article useful to learn how to use body language to attract women.