They say that 70% of what we communicate generally is expressed through body Language. That's how much our gestures come into play when conveying messages. The art of flirting is also expressed with gestures and subtle actions, sometimes even subconscious body signals, also known as body Language flirting. Understanding this artful dance makes it possible for strangers to instantly become comfortable with each other.
What are the signs of body language flirting? We need to be sensitively aware of these gestures to be able to learn them and eventually automatically detect them.
Her Hair
A very common body language flirting sign is when she touches, fixes, and strokes her hair more often than necessary. This is her way of trying to make the best first impression she can. It's also her way of getting you to notice her at the same time.
Eye Contact
If she's at all interested in you, she'll throw you a few lingering glances - ones that last longer than usual. If she's very interested in you, during a conversation she will not only look at your eyes, but she will even tend to glance at your mouth when you're talking. This type of gesture suggests an interest in kissing.
Her Mouth and Lips
Another subtle sign of body language flirting is when a woman makes certain movements or gestures with her mouth or lips. Here are some examples: she may purposely eat something very slowly, she may lick or wet her lips frequently, she may apply chapstick or lipstick very slowly in front of you, and she may blatantly bite her lips. These gestures encourage men to visualize kissing her.
Physical Contact
If she touches you in any manner, this is an obvious sign of body language flirting. She may also lean in closer to you when talking--close enough to touch you or even whisper something in your ear. This creates intimacy between the two of you.
Her Legs and Feet
Women who frequently cross their legs then uncross their legs convey body language flirting. Researchers emphasize that this pattern is a sexually charged behavior. Another sign of flirting you should be cautious of is the direction that her feet are pointed in. If her feet are pointed towards you, it means that she is more likely to gravitate towards you.
Understanding these fundamental body language flirting signs gives you an edge over most other men when flirting with women. Although, not all the signs mentioned here are universally true for all women, they are true for the majority of women. Ultimately, there's only one way to find out for sure, and that's to go out and make yourself aware of these signs and judge for yourself if they're applicable or not.
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